Have you ever walked into a room where there’s just been a fight? You can tell because there’s an energy of tension in the air.
What about being around someone who carries a lot of anger? Whether they are smiling or not, you can sense something is forced or “off” about them.
Never under estimate the power of energy… and what vibe you might be putting off.
Many of us are unaware we are sending signals all the time about things we think we are hiding well.
How do you change the vibe?
Do not spend time associating with the negative record that plays in your head.
Do not plot out scenarios of getting even in your mind.
Do not spend time beating yourself up over that thing you said you wish you hadn’t…
Instead, say you’re sorry, let it go, forgive (yourself and others), move on.
Do so over and over… and over, and over.
When we choose to focus on the negative, what’s wrong, the flaws in others, we end up hurting ourselves most of all.
We lose perspective thinking we are justified and right, and then we grow angry. But we can stop this process - even reverse it.
If we don’t, we give more power to our hurts and broken parts, than what is right and good. We choose being stuck.
It’s not about half empty or full. It’s a choice of darkness over light; associating with hurt vs. desiring to heal and become stronger.
We forget there is always another side. Information we didn’t know. (It’s not always about us or done to us.)
And everyone makes mistakes.
Move away from being narcissistic. See yourself different from what your ego wants you to believe.
If you can do that, your world will open up. You will move from scarcity into abundance. Train your mind to focus on what’s good, what you are grateful for, and what’s here right now… now, now.
Your mind will revolt. Do it anyway. Practice. Breath. Feel the sun. Feel the breeze. Feel the pain, joy, boredom. Be thankful you can feel.
Most of all, keep forgiving everything/everyone - even over the big stuff so that you can live in a place grounded in peace, freedom and joy.
AND, with that you communicate to the world just how attractive and powerful you are…
Leading the way is never easy. But you can change the world if you start within.